So someone once told me that they envied me. Because I'm so confident and everyone liked me.
So I'm gonna share with you why i think they like me and how I act that results in people liking me. I mean this is just what I do naturally.
1. Be confident with yourself. Don't let others knock you down. Believe in yourself. Cause you are your best supporter. If you can't believe in your own self than how can people believe in you. A little bit of confidence goes a long way. Not only in school but it will also help in the future.
2. Take everything positively. Never let the opinions of others define who you are to be. If someone states an opinion about you that is negative... make it positive. I always do that, that people tell me that it's useless to insult me. So don't let the negativity of others affect your happiness. I mean its your life. Always look at the cup half full not half empty.
3. Mingle with everyone. Hang out with anyone. Done be like those people who only hang out with the cool kids. Just mix with everyone whose nice to you. Don't care if they're annoying at times or if he or she has hardly any friends.
4. Never be ashamed or fake. I'm never and will never be ashamed of who I am or what my roots are or what my skin colour is. And never pretend to be someone you're not. I mean how long can you keep the act up and the truth always comes out and it'll bite you in the back.
5. Never be afraid to be seen alone. I know some people are so afraid to be seen sitting alone. Cause they're so ashamed and think that people will judge them. I mean people probably are. But who cares. If you can't even be alone for a few minutes than how are you going to face reality when it comes knocking at your door.
6. Be a nice. When I say be nice i don't mean like be that type of person who just agrees with everyone and only says nice things. I'm saying don't be a bully, or a female dog. You may thing people like you but in actual fact they're just scared of you. So be a nice and decent person. Think before you give your opinion and try to say it in a polite way so no one is offended.
This aren't really tips to being popular or anything but just some advice to people out there.
well, thanks maria!
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